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The
Tiara,
traditionally,
brides received a tiara
from either their father
or their husband at the
time of their wedding.
Traditionally, there are
three types of tiara:
the diadem or circlet,
first made by the
ancient Greeks; the
wreath or garland; and
the kokoshnik, a
stiff, halo-like peak,
originally worn by the
Scythians, later part of
Russian folk costume
and, later still, a
popular shape for
today's tiaras.
The Wedding Ring,
dates back to the 17th
century BC Egypt.
Traditionally, the
wedding ring is a plain, gold band,
and the oldest surviving
symbol of marriage. The circle represents eternity and eternal
love, whilst the gold represents purity of intent.
It is placed on the fourth finger of the left-hand as it was
believed that a vein called the Vena Amoris ran straight from
it to the heart.
The throwing of the Garter by
the groom to unmarried men and the Bouquet
by the bride to
unmarried girls is believed to bring good luck and marriage to
those that caught them.
The conventional white Dress
is said to be a sign of purity and high virtues and innocence.
The
Veil is said
to prevent glances from
jealous suitors harming
the bride.
Something
old, could be a piece of jewellery
such as a medallion.
This represents the married woman’s links with her family
and her past.
Something New depicts the new life that the bride is starting
– this could be her dress, shoes or jewellery.
Something Borrowed is to remind the bride of the need to rely
on others for help. This is normally gold, representing the
sun, the source of life.
Something Blue, usually the garter, denotes faithfulness and
commitment to her
marriage.
Honeymoon – about 4000
years ago in Babylon it was the accepted practice that after a
wedding the bride’s father would supply his new son-in-law
with all the beer he could drink for a month. The beer, called
mead, was a honey-based beer, and because the Babylonian
calendar was lunar-based the period became known as the honey
month, or as we know it today, the honeymoon.
The Bridal Bouquets. In
ancient times, the first bridal bouquets were made of not only
flowers but special herbs and spices. This was done to ward
off the evil spirits. They also used particular herbs that
symbolized fertility.
Throwing rice
(or birdseed)
as the couple departs. The birdseed was thrown to promote
fertility. Originated in the Orient.
The Receiving Line
- In
ancient times, it was believed that the bride and groom were
blessed. Those who touched them would have good luck.
Bride and groom cut the cake
and then feed each other. Feeding each other the cake
symbolizes how the couple will nourish
the relationship for the rest of their lives.
Giving almonds at a wedding
symbolises the bitter and sweet aspect of married life. The
five almonds represent Health, Happiness, Long Life, Wealth and
Fertility.
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The concept behind Bomboniere,
originated in France,
around 300 years ago, when a small box of sweets was
given away to guests on happy occasions. Over time the
idea spread to other parts of Europe, and in particular
to Italy and Greece. Bomboniere consisted of an uneven
number (typically 5 or 7) of sugar-coated almonds,
representing the bittersweet life of a married couple.
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Through immigration the tradition of the almonds
arrived in Australia. Typically the sugar-coated almonds
are wrapped in tulle and attached to a small gift such
as ornament or
photo holder for
each guest or couple Americans call this the wedding
"Favor"
Some couples are personalising
bombonieres,
such as candles, glassware,and photos.
Some ideas for bomboniere for guests include:-
* Individually boxed handmade chocolates
* Personalised candles
* Individual tulle/organza bags of almonds, jelly beans
* Wrapped soaps
* Faberge Eggs
* Miniature Port Bottles
* Small picture frames
* Trinket boxes
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Wedding Bouquet
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What will be in your wedding bouquet?
Check these out ...
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| Plant |
Meaning |
| Ivy |
fidelity |
| Red
roses |
passion |
| White
roses |
purity |
| Quinces |
wedded
happiness |
| Orchids |
rare
beauty |
| Pansy |
thinking
of you |
| Parsley |
festivity |
| Peppermint |
warmth
of feeling |
| Rosemary |
remembrance |
| Sage-Garden |
esteem |
| Sorrel |
affection |
| Spearmint |
warmth
of
sentiment |
| Stock |
lasting
beauty |
| Sweet
Basil |
good
wishes |
| Sweet
Peas |
lasting
pleasure |
| Tulips |
eternal
love |
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